December 2010
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Anonymous asked: advice for a sexually naive girl that is going on a date with a incredibly sexy girl who really want her?? I don't want to disappoint but I also don't want to do anything I may regret. HELP please?
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The QK Guide To: Long Distance Fun
So, you’re travelling away from your partner, or maybe you’re in a long distance relationship, so what can you two do keep things hot while you’re separated.
There are internet enabled sex toys that allow a partner to control the other partner’s toy.
Have your partner take naughty photos in specific attire/poses/whatever and send them to you.
Have them masturbate on...
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QK Recommended Guide Books
So, because I can’t cover everything, since lord knows I’m not an expert on all practices within, I wanted to give some suggestions on books on BDSM and sex that I really love.
BDSM/Fetish Books:
Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon
Fetish Sex by Violet Blue
Fantasy Made Flesh By Janet W. Hardy
Wild Side Sex by Midori
Two Knotty Boys Show You The...
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The QK Rules For Being A Good Kinkster
So, recently I’ve been hearing a lot of debate on SSC/RACK and what defines “safe” and how to deal with people in the scene who’s doing things that are unsafe. Here are my rules for being a good kinkster.
A good kinkster knows how to use their tools and minimizes risk as much as they can while still doing whatever activity it is they want. E.G. They get someone to teach...
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Penis Enlargement Spam
I get a lot of Penis Enlargement Spam, at first I thought this was silly considering that I’ve got two X chromosomes, but then I realized that it makes perfect sense, after all, if I don’t have a penis at all, it really must need enlarging
Anonymous asked: Do you know of any other tumblrs kink-inclined?
Queer or otherwise?
Queer or otherwise?
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The QK Guide To: Kinky Holidays
Now, I’m a third generation Atheist, but damnit I do love Christmas, and all those other awesome solstice based holidays. I personally celebrate Christmas (or Santa day) as my family has done for genorations, because we think that Santa is the personification of all the best parts of human nature, a distillation of goodness if you will, and we like taking trees indoors and decorating them....
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The QK Guide To: Finding A Partner
So, you want to find a play partner, fuck buddy, a sweetheart, or a potential permanent mate, and you need them to be kinky? Cool, you’ve just made it a whole lot harder to find a suitable date, but never fear the QK Guide to Getting A Date is here.
First, figure out what you want. Do you want kink all of time? Some of the time? Just now and then? Exactly what are your kinks? Are you...
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Q: What strap-on's, that don't resemble an actual...
Well, I don’t know what size you’re looking for, or if you like texture, or a fair number of other factors, so I’ll suggest a variety. All of the sex shops I recommend ship internationally, however I can link you to a UK one as well.
Here’s what I recommend on EF (including a few of my favorite harnesses and strapless strap ons):
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The Importance Of Service in Long Term D/s...
A lot of you may be moaning at the mention of service, it’s almost every bottom’s least favorite form of play, and you know what, I’m a lifestyle submissive myself, and I’m not exactly in love with it, but in a long term kinky relationship with a defined top and bottom (or defined dom/me and sub) service is damned important. Topping isn’t easy, as a pro-domme I know...
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The QK Guide To: Travel For Kinksters
So, I promised you all a second segment on travel, so here goes. Here are some travel tips for kinky queers.
Packing:
As much as possible when it comes to air travel pack equipment that can be mistaken for other things. For example a ping pong paddle, and cuffs that could be mistaken for a stylish bracelet.
When flying never pack recognizable or embarrassing kink equipment in your carry on to...