Queer Kink

The QK Rules For Being A Good Kinkster

So, recently I’ve been hearing a lot of debate on SSC/RACK and what defines “safe” and how to deal with people in the scene who’s doing things that are unsafe.  Here are my rules for being a good kinkster.

1. A good kinkster knows how to use their tools and minimizes risk as much as they can while still doing whatever activity it is they want. E.G. They get someone to teach them how to properly use a bull whip before using a bullwhip and get in enough practice.  
2.  A good kinkster is aware of the risks in whatever the activity they’re involved in and don’t down play them to new partners. E.G. They warn people about the potential effects of electrical play above the waist, and do not minimize the risk involved. 
3.  A good kinkster never does anything truly non-consensual, and they stick within the pre-negotiated terms. E.G. They don’t dress up as a clown when their partner says clowns are a hard limit. 
4. A good kinkster cares about the emotional and physical well being of their partner more than they care about getting off. E.G. If someone is in distress they will end the scene and provide appropriate care.

By following these rules you’re far less likely to hurt someone seriously, or be an utter douchebag.  Follow the damn rules kids.