Queer Kink

The QK Guide To: Long Distance Fun

So, you’re travelling away from your partner, or maybe you’re in a long distance relationship, so what can you two do keep things hot while you’re separated.  

• There are internet enabled sex toys that allow a partner to control the other partner’s toy.  
• Have your partner take naughty photos in specific attire/poses/whatever and send them to you.
• Have them masturbate on the phone with you, or on webcam.  If you’re feeling evil, make them get to the point of orgasm, and then deny them.
• Send naughty text massages, or text message them orders (for example, order them to masturbate while at work)’
• Tell them exactly what you’re going to do with them when they get back with you.  In fact plan a scene together, discuss location, what toys to use, premise.  Being apart often means you both fantasize more, and the phone is a great medium for discussing fantasies because it’s sometimes a little easier to tell them what you want when they’re not looking at you.
• Two words: Chastity belt
• Make sure they keep their pubic area groomed as you prefer it, even if you are apart, it’s good to keep in the habit.
• Make them bring back a new toy or outfit from where ever they’re visiting.
• Dictate when they wake up and go to sleep
• Dictate what they eat, nothing like having to call to find out what’s for lunch to remind a sub of their submission
• Give them an assignment like “write an essay on what you want me to do to you when you get home”
• Deny them orgasms until you see them again
• Deny them some article of clothing (like underwear) until they return.
• Have them call to ask what to wear in the morning.
• In your alone time practice with your floggers, or master a new skill, surprise your lover with it when you see them next.
• Buy a toy for them online, instruct them on how to use it.
• Write the first paragraph of an erotic story, have them write the next, etc.
• Have them pretend to be a phone sex operator who has to entertain you and keep you on the line.