On Risk and The Previous Post
The last post here got a big response, a lot of people were upset over me “telling them how to have sex” and someone pointed out “there’s also no safe way to go sky diving” and someone else said “they’re really sick of female dominants being demonized” (I’m not really sure what the last one had to do with anything considering in no way did I mention female dominants, and being the sub of a female dominant… well I’d be the last to demonize female dominants) but anyway, the point is, that I’m not trying to demonize, control, or shunt others into a corner.
I talk to you folks (you being the readers of this blog) like friends, hell I regard you as friends because… well you’re my fellow kinky queers and I love you folks, and although I fully understand it’s your right as adults to do whatever you like with other consenting adults, I would be sad if any of you died (actually I’m basically sad when anyone dies) and so yes, I will tell you that it is my recommendation that no one’s air supply be cut off because it’s riskier than I’m comfortable with. I’m also going to recommend generally against sky diving, drag racing, bungee jumping, alligator wrestling, mushroom hunting, drinking milk you can’t find an expiration date on, and eating at McDonalds. Ultimately, these things are up to you, and it’s your decision whether you want to do them, and if you choose to do them I’m not going to judge you or love you any less, but you folks are my buddies, my pals, my super awesome secret society of awesome, and so, perhaps selfishly I don’t want any of you bungee jumping because I’d be vastly upset were something to happen to any of you.
Now, in the end as long as its between consenting adults aware of the risks involved I believe it’s perfectly moral and acceptable, but I’d be a shitty friend if I didn’t have a slight bias towards “be on the safe side because I love you guys” so, yes, practice RACK (risk aware consensual kink) and rock on with yo’ bad selves… and take good care of yourselves because I’ll be sad if you don’t.
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