Saline drip breast expansion. It’s a hard thing to learn to do, but it looks tons of fun. It can be used for gender play, dollification play, general pain play, or just the fun of filling someone’s chest area with water.
Win. I think I’ll get my friend who’s an RN to teach me about this one.
So, in this idea you handcuff the submissive to the bed, and thread a cloth ribbon through the key and dangle it over the submissive’s mouth, making them “jump” to get at it, you can raise and lower the key to tease them, but be careful of their teeth with the metal key, and make sure that when you do finally let them bite down on it, they grab the ribbon not the key itself (otherwise they’ll be in for a world of hurt and possibly a trip to the dentist) they can then be release, or you can amuse yourself watching them try to get the key to their hand to unlock the cuffs. Do take care to make the ribbon long enough, and to keep a firm hold of it so your bottom can’t choke.
- Idea by Mistress Vonka
This is a fun idea for female bodied couples, or couples featuring a female bodied person and a male bodied person (provided the male bodied person is comfortable with their genitalia).
If you’re both female bodied, both of you strap it on, make sure your bottom is wearing a two strap style harness (as opposed to a jock/thong style) for genital access, proceed to fuck the bottom in whichever orifice appeals to both of you (I prefer it in my vagina, but butt sex works well here too), jack off the bottoms strap on, and generally play as if they’re male bodied… it makes for an interesting dynamic.
If you have a male bodied top and a female bodied bottom… well obviously the top doesn’t need to strap it on, because… well yeah.
I know it looks ridiculous, but seriously, if your partner enjoys breast sensation, flog, spank, or paddle their titties… I strongly, strongly recommend it because it feels incredible. You can also lightly smack other sensitive parts (genitalia) it does generally feel lovely.
So, get yourself a gag that prevents speech, but not the transmission of sound, like this delightful bit gag. Personally I think there’s something very delightfully, kinky about being able to make noise but not to speak. Gag your sub and enjoy some kinky fun or even relatively vanilla sex, however remember that you may need a safe sigh instead of a safe word in order to ensure the sub is safe (dropping a ball from the hand is a common signal)
So, just before today turns into tomorrow, here’s a fun little idea, get your submissive (or your dom/me) and a toy, and video tape them while they pleasure themselves. This is a great idea for two reasons 1. you get to watch your partner get themselves off… and bonus you can watch it again and again and again 2. This is highly educational, you can learn just exactly how they like being touched, which can in turn show you how to touch them.
Bind a submissive in a fairly helpless position, hog-tied, or spreadeagle will work, and then proceed to take out toys, mostly the usual ones, and then something incredibly ominous, like… a meat cleaver, or anything really sharp, anything that’ll scare the crap out of them, hold it, show it to them, and tell them just how helpless they are, remind them of their vulnerable position, and all that, proceed to fuck them senseless (this is not a game for subs with histories of trauma you haven’t checked into, make sure you’re not going to trigger a panic attack first.)
This is an excellent humiliation technique, usually best with a washable medium (like lipstick face paint crayon, or eyeliner). Take your sub and bind them in a position where you have good access to their body, or grab them by the hair with the hand you don’t write with, proceed to write things like “Slut” “fuck toy” and “use me” (with an arrow pointing towards an appropriate orifice, take photos if you like, give them a chance to view themselves… enjoy.
Make a list of rules pertaining to your submissive’s appearance, as restrictive or as loose as you agree on, they can be for play time or for all the time, or for a set duration of time. Enforce them strictly, inspect them whenever you choose. If they don’t comply… punish them.
Example List:
And so on and so fourth, you can go a step farther and make some rules quite specific so you have an excuse to whip out a ruler “oh, that skirt’s a half inch too long, going to have to spank you” and things like that
Get your submissive worked up, and keep stimulating them (or make them stimulate themselves) once they’re really into it, start asking them questions, questions totally unrelated to sex, like “What’s your favorite sandwich?” “What did John F. Kennedy accomplish as president of the united states?” “Off the top of your head, if you had to name a vegetarian restaurant right now what would you call it?” keep the stimulation just as constant and just as intense… threaten not to let them come if they don’t answer.
Idea by Vonka
