[Trigger warning: images discuss how to be safe and avoid about in the BDSM community]
As a person with limited experience in RL BDSM experiences, I think these a extremely important. It is all about negotiation, safety and trust.
10 Golden Rules for BDSM Negotiations
Yes #6!! I always say that my position as a Dominant is earned anyways.
Rule 6 and 8. You can be a “real sub” and still fully voice your opinions in negotiations. Be wary of anyone who says otherwise.
Some advice/knowledge about these things feels somewhat related to this blog.
Abuse does happen in the kink scene… but it’s a bad thing and something we TRY not to allow in the community
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